Effects of sports on boys, good or bad?
Effects of sports on boys...Some boys who are ingorant of ball games are sure to be ignored and have little interpersonal skills.My younger brother is in that case and he's pretty unconfident of that. When he was little, he like staying inside the room and reading books or playing computer games , so he refused to play any ball games with his mates. As the time goes by, when he reached an age where he has the needs to be accepted and recongnised, he regret what he did. His playmates just ignored him and he has no idea in playing basketball which bothers him alot and block he to achieve a fulfilling school life. He found himself a clown and live in shadow. To make the matter worse, it turns out to be a vicious cycle:knowing nothing about basketball makes him unconfident and it is this unconfidence that makes him stick to being an outsider.
Lately he confided this to me and asked my suggestion. I just simply think it's nothing to worry about, just go in for it! But he said he is afraid that somebody will be surprised and then make fun of him, which will ruin his already low self-confidence. You know, boys at that age could be very mean and naughty. I don't know what to say and how to persuade him.'|*qD7S8HxQ
I belive sports is a very effective means for boys or young man to know each other a little bit. But the effect of that is like double-edged sword. Some athlete will easily win others heart while somebody who is not athletic will just end up being an outsider, having little friends, being ingored. Besides, sports could also be aggressive and competitive ,which may lead to conflicts
So my question is What do you think of a boy who doesn't know how to play basketball? and What role does sports play in boys' life? is it good or bad? wY*|.UOF.|/KeF1lz
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[[i] 本帖最后由 温柔的绳索 于 2008-7-2 12:28 编辑 [/i]] i think every boy should play some sports Oh, it's always easy to say than do Sports are good for boys because they can build up their body when working out and they can also reduce their desire.::11 whoa,reduce their desire?really.??::ts Maybe it's also have effect on girls~::11 ::11 excellent basketball skill,to a large certain,may captures a host of belle's attentions,hehe,this is effect of sports [quote]原帖由 [i]pianopoet[/i] 于 2008/7/4 10:00 发表 [url=http://bbs.taisha.org/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=12037134&ptid=1080507][img]http://bbs.taisha.org/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]kv c q D;F/S;E
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I guess it makes sense because after participating in sports, boys usually get exhausted. Under such circumstance, they are not likely to think about you-know::11 . I think it is good。。。。。 [quote]原帖由 [i]pianopoet[/i] 于 2008-7-4 10:00 发表 [url=http://bbs.taisha.org/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=12037134&ptid=1080507][img]http://bbs.taisha.org/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url] Zc%I[5`+Q7v1Cb
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回复 8# tostudyinusa 的帖子
But to me, after swimming, the desire only gets stronger~~::z2 ::z2回复 11# 温柔的绳索 的帖子
::z1Maybe that's because there are many hot girls who wear bikini in the swimming pool::z4 ::z4 wom^^^+r+Dg T8J9e1X
with no doubt,sports play an very very important role in boys' life……,built our guys body,get freshed when we are blue or upset,yeah,of course ,capture girls maybe belles' attention luckly::11 o,D(^#K_ o Ye o X
but,do sports have something with desire……？it is real a surprise::11 ::16 ::z2 just went through the passage~~~ Sport is neither good nor bad,it depends on the person who does it .I don't think a boy who doesn't know how to play basketball is wrong ,maybe he doesn't like basketball and he didn't find another sport very fit him .I suggest he could try other sports and try to make another group of friends .
回复 15# lili3299684 的帖子
lili3299684 gives the answer that I want. E~|mu,N uIt just reminds me of how I start this game. At first I can not master the skill like dribble and the ball always slip away from my finger or be stolen by others . Undertaking the pressure of others' mocking and discouraging words, I strengthen my will to prove myself and someday to show that I am not inferior to others. Now I 've made it. I believe every boy will encounter some trouble on the way to growing to be a true man. But the question is he should never be beated and never give up in spite of pains "No pain , no gain " Through the painful process, we know ourselves better and eventually get a sense of achivement which is bigger than the efforts spent. That's the true meaning of life. ]+E8Q6R?x:fF%Q
Let the adversity and calamity to teach us a lesson! By the way, I think those who really enjoy sports should be warm-hearted, outgoing, confident and considerate for others. Those who use sports as a way to scold others for their bad performance or look down upon and even tease those who are not pretty good playing ball games are the shit on the sports field!!! a8W.U&_f~9i nWX
Frustration and competition will make us stronger. But most importantly, the friendship will be deepen thru team games. I believe that doing sports is good for everyone, no matter boys or girls. ::z1 i do not go out with those who do not do any sports I LOVE athletic boys!!!!!!!!!!!!::z2 Maybe he can try to play badmition. And it is easy for boys to play well.,then he will get some playmates,too!
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