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辰雨清风 发表于 2007-3-16 20:12

IF A MAN WANTS YOU--wise words

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If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
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[color=DarkOrange]Always have your own set of friends separate from his.[/color];qn6e!U.~
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[color=DarkOrange]Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.[/color]
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[color=DarkOrange]If something bothers you, speak up.[/color]
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k%@E^:xq&H [color=SeaGreen]You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.[/color]
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q+{+O/Z {$qKp [color=SeaGreen]baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship[/color]
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7o3G6m'wew [color=SeaGreen]You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists[/color]
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[color=SeaGreen]Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and[/color]
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[color=Navy]RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.[/color]?q$RK)`\/I

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.sw6n5wjcAD ^,Y%K [color=Navy]them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.[/color]
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cosmoon 发表于 2007-3-17 12:39

回复 #1 辰雨清风 的帖子

I don't agree with many points made here, very simple, if you account for rational evaluation of everything in love, love would lose its flavor, just as a bottle wine without alcohol.

lovegermany 发表于 2007-3-17 17:25

this is something you need when getting too high.

moonstar1214 发表于 2007-3-17 20:21

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.g[iBYnUD
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
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I THINK NEED IS A GOOD ONE TO REPLACE WANT::z5

辰雨清风 发表于 2007-3-18 01:48

回复 #3 lovegermany 的帖子

agree.
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just calm a girl down and give her some adivce

辰雨清风 发表于 2007-3-18 01:52

But if a woman can stick to these words, she must have been very smart.....N4D&c#kv7tBn

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lovegermany 发表于 2007-3-18 07:28

回复 #5 辰雨清风 的帖子

but usually it does not works at all...anyway i suppose nobody can see the future, so...just let it be.

kezhiwang823 发表于 2007-3-19 13:47

just let it be

kezhiwang823 发表于 2007-3-19 13:56

just let it be

yupjessie 发表于 2007-3-19 17:20

::z1 ::z1 let it lie

Pharm.D 发表于 2007-3-19 22:02

[quote]原帖由 [i]moonstar1214[/i] 于 2007-3-17 05:21 发表 [url=http://bbs.taisha.org/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=8271479&ptid=794914][img]http://bbs.taisha.org/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]A,N8X,\EYX}!\ X
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fevol 发表于 2007-3-20 15:31

[quote]原帖由 [i]lovegermany[/i] 于 2007-3-18 07:28 发表 [url=http://bbs.taisha.org/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=8274446&ptid=794914][img]http://bbs.taisha.org/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
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I totally agree with you.
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Tomorrow may be Okay if today its Okay. if you are unhappy today,please don't mention tomorrow.
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shf192 发表于 2007-3-20 21:56

u are over cautious to men . it's not what u think for a ture man !!!

猫宝宝 发表于 2007-3-21 12:42

Kind of feminism, but I like it::z5

huahanlujiayou 发表于 2007-4-29 18:03

Never should you live for a man or a moman. It is extremely dangerous.

carrie 发表于 2007-4-30 10:40

I can not say I agree with you.'ej*B bT7@'?3g
But sometimes girls may need some comfort.
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The most important thing is you get touched and you can feel better. That is all.
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After all, what we can do for a relationship sometimes is not much.-w[/A(W!d:@
What I have learned is 'Let it be. Let it go."

fuyifeng 发表于 2007-4-30 11:25

OOOOOOOOOO, beautiful essay!!!!!!

辰雨清风 发表于 2007-4-30 18:06

[quote]原帖由 [i]huahanlujiayou[/i] 于 2007-4-29 18:03 发表 [url=http://e.taisha.org/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=8580600&ptid=794914][img]http://e.taisha.org/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
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Is it more ridiculouse if we just live for oursleves or for something like a prize, a reputation, a job?

Prada恶魔 发表于 2007-5-3 22:53

That's too hard for me to do so.
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Prada恶魔 发表于 2007-5-3 22:57

oh...i think i made a mistake.
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SOOTHSAYER 发表于 2007-5-6 05:12

i like it ... that's it!!
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      nothing can change it! right?

kiddy-lsc 发表于 2007-5-8 13:59

[size=4][color=magenta]2 long 2 finish it, sorry, i will reread it when time permits![/color][/size]

辰雨清风 发表于 2007-5-9 18:00

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yichen1130 发表于 2007-6-9 16:12

quite interesing i think

小菜子 发表于 2007-6-9 21:13

it makes me sick, man is not like a demond as this lady thinks, i still believe most men are responsible and treat their girls like angel, count me on

hollest 发表于 2007-6-10 01:27

totally agree~

jessica000 发表于 2007-6-15 17:30

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jiangw89813 发表于 2007-6-15 22:47

sometimes, man can treat woman bery well, but those girls they do not know that is love. they ust feel very bad about you, they do not want you close to her, so they keep away from you. But basicly, that is a kind of love that man can give to woman.

imaroD 发表于 2007-6-16 22:31

eb ti tel!::11

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