A Letter to my EX-BoyFriend----the night before he got married
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkred][b]Hey baby:[/b][/color][/size][/font][font=Arial][size=2][/size][/font]4E |(W.zN+e
[font=Arial][size=2][b]::z1 [/b][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][/size][/font] v3aoB4_ x.^ i
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]i have got your message and invitation.[/b][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]Thanks very much and congratulations.[/b][/color][/size][/font] `7l L)IP ~!O-F
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]For a long time...i cannot get rid of you...cannot get over from our memory...[/b][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]0F Ive#Q$}
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]The funny thing about life is that the most profound things are often the most banal...[/b][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]there is no unique part in our story..just like the most ordinary relationship in the whole world..[/b][/color][/size][/font]FV8MnOG\!qDj
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]Someone has told me that...Time is a great healer...and Nothing lasts forever...[/b][/color][/size][/font]0y4Z1QiK4E z7A
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]i believe that you will live a better life than the life i can offer you...[/b][/color][/size][/font]+EQJL$M&]@&r h(Yp
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]*ti/To;e u A
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]that's really enough for me...[/b][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]Lu `_'v:D8pE(um
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]i feel happy for you from the bottom of my heart if you find your right girl finally...[/b][/color][/size][/font],\(qR\SK!Y j
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]H&k|Q-fw;W+| k
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]sorry about the absence at your wedding...[/b][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]because i am here in the United Kingdom..[/b][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font])P UF ?i k ~~
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]it is really far away from our hometown...the same place we fell in love...[/b][/color][/size][/font]^:^I g{ d!w
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]it is a whole new life here...which is totally different from the past...[/b][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font])z2j.Xf|e"Wd[
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]%v JB5T7Pdm8s
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]both of us have changed a lot...especially me...[/b][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]i am not that little girl who needed you so much before..[/b][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]and you...i know you are already a strong man who i wished you to be at that time..[/b][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]` ~t2~`Z
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]i wish i would be there and be a part of the most important moment in your life...[/b][/color][/size][/font] d |9T])s:},Bk+y
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]but...sorry again...and best wishes...[/b][/color][/size][/font] ~ W)~4y7x
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font] nHd5B uOs
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]remember to be cool and be good..[/b][/color][/size][/font]n-W7xjD)i5R+w
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]take the best care of your girl..never hurt her in the same way..[/b][/color][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][/color][/size][/font].l$H7P3g6J3~M
[font=Arial][size=2][color=darkslategray][b]i will always wish you a happy life...with all the love and without me...[/b][/color][/size][/font]H[6D z q;C3G3NI
[font=Arial][size=2][/size][/font]
[font=Arial][size=2][color=#ff0000][b]Congratulations![/b][/color][/size][/font] n7M eU.Wj{&n'~
[b][font=Arial][size=2][color=#ff0000][/color][/size][/font][/b]
::z1 V.f JIC8`6^e
[b][font=Arial][size=2][color=#ff0000][/color][/size][/font][/b]
[img]http://e.taisha.org/attachments/month_0704/20070418_34a94c09224ac57cae4e2r17aOB8aWXY.jpg[/img]
[[i] 本帖最后由 清逸 于 2007-4-18 02:34 编辑 [/i]] take a seat for him..because he never came here..
IP8nD+t4v b o
ever never bless you::z3 it is a story long time ago....we broke up nearly 2 years.....'ud1E"R$n!y
.P;r+f7w6{/v:z
he got married this April
5UGA Kx sC
thanks though.... Time is a healer but not as good as a substitute of previous history..Good Luck to ya you still call him babyr!p+[{^6}6V
It seems the feeling you have on him is so complex and bless you \)y)ibIqH
2[pvK;e,~ n3a
hope you could find your Mr Right soon hey... what a goooood girl here~
that's his losing.. A lovely girl, bless you...take best care of yourself in UK... The letter is full with tear,I think.{iZ&~p jR0zE
U%T;@ F2w2S.t)H Z
"I am not that little girl who needed you so much before.."
That's not the turth but she has to say. Do not be sad~~~you will get your MR. right he might have hurt you, but you still love him sooooo muchNX%KSe p*C;Wa
what a kind girl
回复 #1 清逸 的帖子
Marriages have become more and more less important in our time, those who marry do not necessary mean they love each other greatly, while whose who are apart may have a great memory to cherish, if you feel it's good for you then hold it, it would be the precious treasure you have in your life, with which you have been and still going to be a more wholesome individual::z5 Excuse me,what's you meaning? Congratulations. [quote]原帖由 [i]lincoln_8513[/i] 于 2007-4-18 11:32 发表 [url=http://e.taisha.org/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=8499253&ptid=811635][img]http://e.taisha.org/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]you still call him baby
It seems the feeling you have on him is so complex [/quote]
Wnn$e.X A
uCk/}5i$z(xw`
GNfe,h h~0U#w
he is my primary school classmate....$C0Y~5P;j$w~1c I.v
9g:el;^C f(`*Om
we know each other for quite a long time...which makes us like a family...
calling baby is ok at anytime....i think so... [quote]原帖由 [i]fevol[/i] 于 2007-4-18 15:22 发表 [url=http://e.taisha.org/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=8500575&ptid=811635][img]http://e.taisha.org/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
The letter is full with tear,I think.h gi:_F,j
"I am not that little girl who needed you so much before.."
3`E*E!dUmZ+K
That's not the turth but she has to say. [/quote]
when i wrote it...no tear..c1N2?Qa-oE
F~){d,H.v0v
oigR Q(G
but i cannot read it for a second time. There are always something worthy to be cherished in our life, and you are so fortunate that you have such a beautiful memory !
*M]xx&? q^
wish you a good life abroad...
some would fail, and some would prosper......
some would die, and some would kill.................. i wouldnt do that i did not send this letter...just wrote in order to remind myself.... GOD BLESS YOU [font=Arial][size=3]You would always be that little girl in his memory,I supposed.,h'Cl9n|-[F#ske
Life is cruel and we have to face the true life,especially for a man in this complex world.P e ~#oq7S(O M
I think he must have some secrets and problems he doesn't want to reveal,but I am sure that he cherish his momery which you cherish the same.4}*RaM_h:~0H
That would be enough for me,when I looking back to my old days at my dying age,I would thanks to all the man who gave me such beautiful memories.[/size][/font]0w;@/DEV-`)K f
5^Bo,h\7J
[[i] 本帖最后由 dudu811900 于 2007-4-19 14:22 编辑 [/i]]
回复 #17 清逸 的帖子
I like a song named "Don't cry" by Guns 'N Rosed.y p"} J qo'a!Ws Xd ra q)Q|
don't u take it so hard now! and please don't take it so bad!3z^5Dt$D4Cm
i'll still be thinkin' of u! and the times we had...baby. Bless you~ P6V{%{:^kv(j
You are so warmhearted girl. Every TS's friends loves you. ;x/\_ \I
I don't how he hurted you. But as we know, the reality is just so cruel! Experience is fortune. Believe that you will mature and cherish the next friend. m7p2m(~Q-a.IXy
Go on with the tears in your heart. some memory is not to be forgotten.
remember it, and cherish it, that's all we can do.
God bless ya, dear. why is everybody here posting in english? i guess JJ doesn't have bf now. it's a fortune,we can learn more from it,we wiil gain the blessedness and happiness of ourselves ::11 ::21 ::21 bless you::z1 ::z1 dear, dont live in the past, look forward and you can always see a better view.::z1 I think it's funny how "final" marriage feels.
If your ex boyfriend is simply dating this girl, you would feel that there is always a chance you two could get back together. But now that he is married that possibility has gone away.
I agree with cosmoon. Distance creates the illusion of happiness and beauty. There was a boy I really liked at my university. But we never had the opportunity to date. He is now moving away and getting married. I will miss him a lot.
Sometimes I try to imagine what it will be like to be married to him, but other times I understand this love is more like an illusion. The times we spent together were fun but we probably wouldn't make very good lovers or husband and wife. We always want what we can't have in life. But most of the times what we can't have in life are not worth having in the end. tears running in my eyes.. best wishes to you ..i think i should write a similar letter to my lover too like a poem when i read for the first time,
_P\z%_#P2HXrK.r \
so i know that it's a poem of life full with happiness and sadness\!b}f WN*}
8j `&J#F/Dk L(d F'A I
a lover ...god,have mercy on me.. At least both of you have had some unforgetabke memory~m_Y%T'B\ \1O4Sd,],r
Hiope is around the corner ::80 when god close the door, somewhere he open a window.n \,m:e/G3? R-DM7Q ]
tomorrow is another day:r3n.G O4V4S)` _
to say sometime in some movie by some actors can you hold you tearo&}vx(h1l
what a tough girl! bless...